wootthefook!!??



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 09/04/2008 05:17PM by kerel.

i have man crush for courtney love
HAH

Faoldubh posted:

Sexual preference ranges across a spectrum rather than a existing as a fixed set of binary options; any lines drawn are arbitrary and artificial. It's interesting how humans as social animals are forever finding ways to categorize and separate ourselves...maybe we have to decide who we're not, before we can attempt to figure out who we are. *ponders*

Anyway.

Is having a 'man-crush' for straight guys kinda like that 'men who have sex with men' category of 'straight guys', too?

Ohnoes, the straight-guy-only mancrush thread has been taken over by queers! Muahahaaaaa *dances with XTRMNTR*

On that note, Matthew McConaughey, Vin Diesel is hot as fuck, I've always liked Henry Rollins, Demi Moore in GI Jane when she was all bald-headed and butch, I'd take Raci from TransGeneration out to dinner any day of the week (Lucas too, for that matter), Jake Gyllenhaal, Carrie-Anne Moss, and this woman I work with that's so freakin' beautiful it almost hurts to look at her.

Now that I've ruined up the thread (or made it better, depending on viewpoint), I'll just be going.

i see where you're coming from...but out of all my gay friends...none of them have ever said...i'll kiss him but i won't put my mouth on his penis..
and out of all the straight men i've known...i've never heard...i'll kiss him but i won't put my mouth on his penis...
sounds almost like a line to me rather than a spectrum...

Sure, there's a line, but it's a purely socially constructed line. People seem to want to break human sexuality down into two exclusive categories of 'straight' and 'gay', and thankfully, that doesn't seem to be the way nature works.

The concept of this thread in and of itself serves to illustrate my point -

If the greater natural world were really separated into two exclusive halves with 'attracted to men only' on one side, and 'attracted to women only' on the other side, we wouldn't even have such a thing as a 'mancrush'. There would be no 'men who have sex with men' category of 'straight guys' used as a reference in the medical community, there would probably be a lot less of the fakey lesbian whatnot that 'straight' women do together solely to show off for 'straight' men, and bisexual, pansexual, and perhaps even asexual people wouldn't exist. Sexuality and attraction aren't purely black and white, which makes sense as gender identity and expression aren't, either; it's all just rather a lot of shades of grey. Or mauve, or whathaveyou.

And I dunno, but there are plenty of people that I'd kiss but not put my mouth on their genitals. That doesn't need to be an all-or-nothing thing, either.

i said that wrong...normally don't find themselves attracted to the same sex..

I went ahead and changed the thread title to make it more inviting. So now we ladies can join in the hotness and you guys can still post men you find attractive.

And how can you even do a thread like this without the photos to back it up?



Three words for why you should see 28 Days Later: Cillian Murphy naked.

I like this discussion and I have to say I totally think everyone has gray areas. It really depends on the time, place, feelings, and the person. I'm married to a man who considers himself to be totally hetero, but even he said who knows if the right person came along it could happen.

Personally I find Cillian Murphy hotter as the character, Kitten from Breakfast on Pluto.



Jonne Aaron from the band, Negative.

Jon Stamos? lol

No one is hotter then Emile Hirsch. Except Trent of course.

leo3375 posted:

I went ahead and changed the thread title to make it more inviting. So now we ladies can join in the hotness and you guys can still post men you find attractive.

And how can you even do a thread like this without the photos to back it up?



Three words for why you should see 28 Days Later: Cillian Murphy naked.

OMFG, I love him. You gotta check out Disco Pigs...he's fantastic!

LobotomyBaby posted:

Technically this should be a thread ..for men only...and heterosexual men...i hate to draw another line separating the sexual preference but technically if you're gay...
having a man crush is like a having a woman crush if you're a straight man...make sense?
i hope so...
let me go ahead and get this one out of the way
trent reznor..ok

maybe i'm behind the times, but that made absolutley NO SENSE to me whatsoever

why the hell did i click on this??

Jason Schwartzman


Chris Corner



Jonathan Rhys Meyers


Alan Rickman



Gary Oldman




Gerard Butler


Joaquin Phoenix, Adrian Brody


Ville Valo


Robert Pattinson



Heath Ledger (RIP)


Johnny Depp
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Ewan McGregor

jeordie_girl posted:

LobotomyBaby posted:

Technically this should be a thread ..for men only...and heterosexual men...i hate to draw another line separating the sexual preference but technically if you're gay...
having a man crush is like a having a woman crush if you're a straight man...make sense?
i hope so...
let me go ahead and get this one out of the way
trent reznor..ok

maybe i'm behind the times, but that made absolutley NO SENSE to me whatsoever

this thread was originally for men with man-crushes ...i was trying to break it down to heterosexual men who have intense adoration for certain males....but the gay community broke me down...
regardless... the show must go on...and i have you all beat...because you've forgotten one very smoldering individual.
tyler durden himself

to be completely non-gay...and yet i can't stop staring...he's perfect...
he's art... one more for the road

Yeah, Brad is certainly hot. I like him more for his ability to play so many roles and actually BE the role. I respect him more than I think he's hot..