Friday night was Zoobrew, which was awesome because there is a new lion exhibit there and it was cool. After that we went to our fav gay bar that we used to go to like every Friday night, for drinks and dancing. I promise i was trying to be good and then my friends decided it was time for shots, which meant it was time to dance. And i danced the shit out of that place! Then we wandered on up the street to our friends house for a random front yard party. I remember throwing water balloons across the road (for no apparent reason there was a bag of them). I also remember being pissed because the dj at the bar didn't play my requested Rihanna song so at our friends house i finally got to hear it..as i danced in the garden. My best friend, who was supposed to be the DD, realized she was too drunk too drive so she had her husband come get us. A little background story- her husband and my ex are very good friends- and it was my ex's bday that day. My ex is a drummer in a popular local metal band who was having a show that night as well. Of course, this dipshit is in the car with her hubby. So I put my sunglasses on to get in the car, because ya know, these are such an important accessory at 3 in the morning, everything's calm and then my psycho evil drunk twin screams "you better come get your shit out of my house!". Then he screamed back at me- and got smacked by my gay husband for it. It was actually pretty fuckin funny, and not as dramatic as it may sound.
Saturday night i went to my beach bar. This was my chill day. Not much to report about.
Sunday, however, was a different story. There was a mini cookout at my friend and her hubby's place. It started out as a cookout so the guys could plan our friends bachelor party. Evryone's all in this wedding this summer, blah blah blah. But of course, everyone else basically invited themselves. My ex was there and part of me wanted to apologize for the night before but that definitely didn't happen. We all ended up at this bar for a few random drinks. My one friend told me i remind him so much of Kristen Wiig- which i told him was probably one of the greatest compliments of my life (she's my hero)! This same friend also gave my bestie and i a little bitty bag of weed. Neither of us are avid smokers or anything so maybe that's why we got fucked. up. We laughed and laughed and were just being really ridiculous the rest of the night. I'm still giggling about it.
Yesterday my roommate and i went to the beach and then to our friends house for a cookout and to see his new dog. Yesterday was really chill. I climbed a tree. This weekend was all about fun and not giving 2 shits what anyone thinks. I laughed so much and even though i was drunk/stoned some of the time which prob has something to do with it, i feel like i was able to reconnect with some friends. Since my head is no longer up my ex's ass i'm starting to remember- and i kind of feel guilty about this- why i'm friends with the people i'm friends with and it's not fair to avoid people just because you're seeing someone. My friends are fuckin awesome. I'm very lucky. Between that and the stress of work this weekend was what i needed
So there's this guy who's been interested in me for years and i'm not really into him. he'll periodically talk to me and try to get me to hang out with him. Last night i got a message from him basically saying he wants to prove how he feels about me and take me out for din din. I don't really know what to say. I kinda want to because, why not? If anything it's a meal that i probably wont have to pay for but on the other hand i dont want to lead him on, like at all.
How is everyone doing?!!!??
holy crap, this is a long message! sorry!