november19
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Oh, help!
i have such a dilemma..
A stray cat has begun to hang in our yard! My immediate response is to scoop it up and expand our family (we have a 7 y/o cat) but i have tried this before (adopted a second kitten from a shelter) and it was disasterous!
Apparently, our cat is a ONE cat kind of guy.. and despite us doing everything by the book regarding the introductions and warming period and so forth.. he was absolutely vicious to this poor kitten and it broke my heart that we couldn't keep it. But at the end of the day-- my cat is MY baby and it's HIS home and i'm not willing to traumatize him by forcing another cat in our house.
This said.. my heart just goes out to this stray, who looks young and is so trusting and lovey. i am so torn as to what to do! When winter comes, i cannot stand the fact that he/she will be outside! A neighbor has asked if it was our cat, as she noticed it in her yard as well and was going to take it to the vet's to have it scanned for a possible micro chip, to find its owner. i haven't found out what she learned, or if indeed she was able to do this yet.
i also can't stand the idea of taking it to a shelter, and having it live in that situation, and then pray that a good owner will come along to adopt it.. i have so little faith in people, particularly regarding animal welfare!
This is a dilemma i cannot pretend isn't happening, cannot close my eyes to it and slip into that comfortable cloud of denial that works so well for me otherwise!
Any advice? i need a serious dose of reality, i'm afraid.
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