uuku posted:post 98
the brief resurrection....
one: this other person has to live in an incarceration of sorts - not being able to live like a free person.
or two: he can't fall in love.
because by doing so he'd hurt the last person he'd want to hurt.
what would be appropriate, is that you live a long life and never get to feel the love he feels now.
Such is the bane of celebrity. There are many celebrities who are very sucessful that don't have these issues. But they must keep their private lives under wraps and guarded (birds in gilded cages). I'm kinda torn cause I'm a mushy old romantic at heart who loves love and loves a good ride off on a unicorn type story (and I'm happy for them too)...but I also hate to see what's happening now, which time has shown again and again comes from airing things publicly.
I know what I've been through simply because people assumed or speculated based on what I or others typed/wrote. I can tell you it's scary and part of the reason I'm happy being just me...I think THIS ^ is SIMPLY terrible (The situation). I just wish I knew WHY people have to be so cruel to one another and WHY they feel they even have the right to; simply because someone chooses to pursue a career in a performing.
The thing is, performing is a career/a job/part of how they make a living/a chosen profession. So, as with any other career, there is a time when they are performing and a time when the show ends and they walk off the stage; at which point the performers are just like the rest of us. For some reason people can't seem to make that distinction. Like they expect them to be performing ALL the time, it's ALL a show, EVERY aspect of their lives.
On top of that you have Twitter and other places where they post things for publicity/marketing, because it's a business where you have to sell products to make a profit, and SOME performers DO care about their fans, but sometimes this posting only serves to give people the false idea that they somehow KNOW these performers. But, REALITY IS, unless they are a physical part of our lives on a daily/regular basis people...WE DO NOT KNOW THEM. Period. They are STRANGERS. The issue is WITH the people making the assumption or who fail to see/make that distinction between the performers perfoming and their walking off stage.
In the end we ALL, myself included, reap what we sow. So though I'm very happy for Trent and Mariqueen I also see the whole thing as very sad.
Edited 8 time(s). Last edit at 06/14/2009 09:44AM by janedoepa.