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06/10/09 9:00 PM

Hey Trent, don't worry be happy, this is the internet, getting trolled is part of internet life.

 

06/10/09 9:01 PM

I'm plump and in the first row, and I Tweet, but I mind my manners. Trent, I became a fan of yours because of your fearless music. I remain fascinated by your raw humanity. My best to you and Mariqueen. I hope y'all have lots of babies that grow up to be just like you two are right now.

 

06/10/09 9:02 PM

Have fun Trent smiling smiley Bye!

 

06/10/09 9:03 PM

Well, just a reminder that not all of us standing at the rail are self-loathing psychopaths..... also i love the twitter thing going on and hope it doesnt turn into a classic "few ruin it for the many...."

 

06/10/09 9:07 PM

Miles of pages of gratitude just don't stand a chance against a few trolls. Great.

 

06/10/09 9:11 PM

Demonseed25 posted:
the cutting(suicidal) advice was just sad.............don't joke like that man as much as you dislike these individuals.Suicide is never the answer.Do you know how many people kill themselves every year?I don't........But i'm guessing it's a LOT.

They were probably told they were "plump and unattractive" too.

Trent, rereading your little diatribe, it's a bit of the pot calling the kettle black. As I said in my original post back on page 10ish, I always pictured the women of Metal Sludge as "desiccated strippers" old, skinny and saggy - with bleached blonde hair and homemade tattoos. One can't be fat and freeze dried.

For people who want to post their pic to prove they are "not fat and unattractive" how do we know that is really you. I have my eye, it has no wrinkles, does that prove I'm young? Is it really mine? Is it a pic of me from 1955? A picture online means nothing.

 

06/10/09 9:13 PM

Well, here's my two cents. (Not that anyone will read this far in this big-ass thread.)
I both like and loathe the anonymity of the internet.
I like that no one knows that I'm a plump female because many people would automatically put me in the category of the metal sludge dredge that Trent mentioned. I, for one, stopped fantasizing about rock stars when I was fifteen or so. I have a real life and real concerns that do not include the love lives of celebrities. But often because of how I (or people like me) look it is assumed that all of us spend all our waking lives in some fantasy land where hot rich unattainable men fall all over us. It can be difficult because more often than not someone makes the assumption (usually verbally and right to me or at least within earshot) that I must like so-and-so as an actor because he's handsome or I only listen to this band or that because the singer's good-looking. This assumes that I'm some shallow would-be slut with no real taste or opinions that aren't guided by my loins. That doesn't mean that I don't notice when someone's good-looking but that isn't the end all be all of what I think and feel about someone or their contributions to society.
I'm not who I was in 1994 either. Thank goodness. Because if I was then there would be fifteen years of personal growth down the shitter.
Yes, people are bigger assholes sometimes because of the anonymity but it also gives some of us the chance to not be pre-judged and lumped into categories into which we do not belong.
If Trent reads this (which I doubt) then I hope he has a fulfilling and happy life. I'd wish this for anyone who has created art that meant something to me. Or to anyone who has inspired others to be better people.
All of that being said. . . I go by my real first name on here and facebook. I go by blasko66 on HorrorHound's board and myspace. I don't post here often. I was mostly on the Spiral under the same name as I am here.

 

06/10/09 9:15 PM

TR-It's striking and hurtful that you would stereotype "plump" women in the way that you did. Thin people can also be ugly and have delusions of fucking celebrities that would never fuck them in a million years. Thin/ugly/fatass=they can all be sick fucks.
I have been a fan for 15 years and loved getting to see inside of your world with twitter, it's refreshing to see that your happy/in love/complete.

Still a genius in my eyes, just sad that you may see all fat chicks in the way you described.

 

06/10/09 9:16 PM

:/

 

06/10/09 10:18 PM

Verification would have helped.

 

06/10/09 9:20 PM

I sorry to see this, that you feel this way.

On a very positive note, you are sober and healthy, in love and happy. I think your 'true' fans couldn't ask for anything more. I wish you all the best and hope you treasure your love and never take her for granted and she does the same with you. I'm extremely happy for you both. Good luck in your future endeavors.

 

06/10/09 9:24 PM

Well said. A is always A.

 

06/10/09 9:26 PM

Hey Trent.

This is my first post and I just wanted to say thanks. Not only have you produced some great music and engaged your fans, but you've also helped save a life. My sister was lost years ago, into drugs, bad things, etc. Since we were both young NIN was part of our lives and have gone through our own pitfalls, problems and have become recovering people. So much for Internet life (at least the social sites part), but its given me the opportunity to say hi. We'll see you in NC, sitting in box 9. We saw your concert in West Palm and needed another shot before you go away for a while. My sister Kristine doesn't know I'm writing this, but through this tour, she and I have become closer, and the concert ticket was my gift to her. Little by little, she's coming out of her bad time and to see how excited she is to see you perform puts a big smile on a brothers face.

Hopefully, the bus trip isn't so bad. See ya Friday.

John

 

06/10/09 9:26 PM

I am greatful to have been alive to interact with such an amazing soul.

You have set the bar so high for all bands/artists. I'm not sure there will be anybody who can top it....ever.

I have so much respect and admiration for you and all you do. So mission accomplished! smiling smiley and i'll end with one of the best quotes i've ever heard;

~We don't ever really change. We just simply become more aware of who we already are.~

 

06/10/09 10:28 PM

wow...I think EVERYONE is getting a little too sensitive. Im proud to post my plump ass profile pic with Trent, meeting him was a thrill. It is about the music (or should be.)

Does anyone really think Trent reads through any of these posts anyway?

 

06/10/09 9:30 PM

Love is totally awesome man, like seriously the best thing ever. There's lots of us here who love you Trent, come back and visit often! ...don't forget the surprise buttseks.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 06/10/2009 09:31PM by Vortka.

 

06/10/09 9:30 PM

ginapier posted:
wow...I think EVERYONE is getting a little too sensitive. Im proud to post my plump ass profile pic with Trent, meeting him was a thrill. It is about the music (or should be.)

Does anyone really think Trent reads through any of these posts anyway?

Overly sensative, yes, and I also doubt he'll be reading most of them any way.

Also, twitter sucks anyways, there are far better social networking sites out there.

 

06/10/09 9:33 PM

Well, I must say, very well stated, Trent. Although I am by no means defending any idiots out there, I am just trying to rationalize this situation and a few thoughts came to mind while I walked from my building to my parking garage after work.
Your music has been so influential, not just for other musicians, but, for the common listener, such as myself. The lyrics and musical quality surpasses that of many bands and there are many of us who really watched you evolve as an artist over many years. Because you are so forthcoming in your music about your life experiences, people really relate to you. They feel like they know you and want to be next to you, breathe the same air, etc. Hell, I would love to meet you and the other members of NIN, hang out, discuss music, politics, etc. I think people see you and have this preconceived notion of who you are. Now, I know that realistically, we will not BFF's or anything. But, I follow you on Twitter and look forward to your updates, especially regarding tour information. When there were ticket giveaways, I was either fulfilling the responsibilities of my job, going to the gym, or something else that the average person would actually do to be productive. With that said, there are certain people who seem to really scrutinize your life under a very powerful microscope, to an obsessive level. When something happens that challenges this preconceived idea people have of who you are and your humanness becomes more apparent, and you experience the wonderful life events that you should, it is very shocking. Then, the psychotic obsession takes over their lives, and they stalk and harass you. Many times, because they feel let down by this transition in their perception of you, they try to hurt you, and have obviously been successful. They also want to hurt those who are close, because they have no self esteem or purpose to their existences. It's a shame that a few bad apples have ruined this whole experience for those of us who really appreciate how accessible you are to your fans and how you have really connected with us. I, personally, thoroughly enjoyed the live shows from the Lights in the Sky & NINJA tours, driving to a different city for the latter. Also, being a woman of a different ethnic persuasion, I have absolutely no tolerance for discrimination & racism of any kind. It is really easy to abuse the Internet for such purposes, because of the anonymity and lack of accountability for one's actions. If someone actually insulted my ethnicity & gender to my face, frankly, I'd just kick the person's ass. But, to read it is really disturbing, and you don't forget those things. So, my heart goes out to you and your fiance for this recent difficulty. But, you do what you need to do, and I cannot wait for your next projects. Good luck!

 

06/10/09 9:36 PM

It's really too bad that a few bad apples ruin such a great backstage veiw of your life through Twitter Trent... I enjoyed checking what you were doing everyday and now some fucking idiots ruined it for the real fans that love you as a person and artist. Sucks, but I completely agree with you that you need to stay away from the BS and concentrate on the great things going on in your life right now. Much more important!

Thanks for everything you do Trent.

Kris - Auburn, NH

 

06/10/09 10:48 PM

im sure nothing i write here hasnt already been said before, or better. but,


Thank you for being so candid. You lifted the veil a bit and let us see the inner workings of the band/man/mental processes that have given us what we all desire so much from you - the music. This isnt the first time you have "exposed" yourself to us. You have done it w/ every album that you have made and let us take a peek inside. Recently, you have let us see that you are just like every human being - minus the trolls- you like to have fun, have intelligent rapport w/ those in your community, and you have the ability to fall in love with the person who is best suited for you (congratulations!). This has let us gain an understanding and respect that enhances your music and the experience for us all. i will most likely never be able to shake your hand and give you a heart-felt thanks, but thank you none the less. The support, that you have given US, through your music is incalculable and special. you let us all know that we were not alone on those dark days or months, that there was someone who was going/had gone through something similar and could empathize. The human connection is your greatest gift.

Love is... anything you want it to be. But there is something special about being in the arms of the woman you love, the ability to be vulnerable - more then ever before and feel safe in her arms. It makes you live your life being a better man. I am truly happy that you have found this. Love is more important then anything I know. Again congrats, and hopefully see you sooner rather then later. smiling smiley

 

06/10/09 9:49 PM

Interesting take on social networking it's funny because it's true. Excited to see what you'll have in store for us in the future.

 

06/10/09 9:51 PM

1. The internet is shedding light on a whole world of deformed, television addicted mutants who were never connected to the outside world. Now they're all connected to each other. Every culture that is online is going through a transitional period now just like they did with the printing press.
2. Your giving up too quickly. I got used to the noise and banter. You will to.
3. As delusional as it sounds, social media has a great potential for great individual power despite commercial interests in user numbers.

Hope this gets through to you. I was amazed when you embraced the internet and creative commons. Id hate to see you give up on it.

all the best

Don

 

06/10/09 9:58 PM

n2thevoid66 posted:
I'm sorry to hear you're taking that route because my respect for you as a person has only grown since I've had the opportunity to read your twitter feed and meet you in person and see a glimpse of the man behind the mask of nin. But I must say its not totally unexpected because a man in your position w/ your fame putting yourself out there for the true fans of yours is also unfortunately going to attract the worst of society and the pile of shit that goes along w/ those people. Hopefully you'll be able to find that elusive alternative so fans like myself can enjoy to get an opportunity to see whats going on in your head.

PS- Thanx for the great show in Mansfield I still get chills when I think of you guys playing La Mer

Me too, awesome show, I teared up a little.

 

06/10/09 10:02 PM

Trent,
Thanks for sharing your insightful and intelligent thoughts with us. I am always impressed by everything you do. I will miss your reading your postings but I agree you should stop if it is doing more harm than good. I want you to continue to be very happy.

 

06/10/09 10:08 PM

One last thought on "This profile is now one-way, NIN-related only, No @replies read until Twitter improves blocking."

You could protect your updates and access only the sane and good but therefore would have to hire somebody to check existing 642,921 followers first for trolls (which will take ages) to block ´em and keep this person busy afterwards with checking following requests. Not possible, I guess.

Laurent Garnier - the french DJ - [twitter.com] - was maybe a little bit cleverer as he has done so (protected updates) right fromt he start. That may lead to the possibility of a true and worthy exchange between musician and fan. Maybe. Just a thought.

 

06/10/09 10:10 PM

Please do not actually cut your wrists people, no matter how much TR dislikes you.

 

06/10/09 10:10 PM

chirkabear posted:
Social networking sites are basically the hi-tech version of bathroom stalls. You can read/write as much as you want, it just depends how long you want to be in the shitter.

I'm stealing this quote, by the way.

 

06/10/09 10:14 PM

Wow, After reading this, the Why I may be cranky post, and what's on twitter; I'm really shocked at the extend that this has been going on! It's disgusting and I'm so sorry that you have to go through that. It's bad enough that these people feel the need to harass you on a daily basis but I find it incredibly horrible that they then started to harass your fiance` on her twitter account. I just don't get it! I guess self loathing, depression, and jealousy can lead to some hurtful and nasty behavior. I can see why you would want to get away from this!
On a lighter note, I just want to thank you for all that you've done these past 20 years and especially with in the past few years! I was especially impressed with your generosity for Eric De La Cruz! It really warmed my heart to see all the time and effort you put into gathering and inspiring a community to help save a life! Just with this alone you make the world a better place. Anyway I wish you the best and I hope that you and Mariqueen enjoy a long and happy life together smiling smiley

 

06/10/09 10:17 PM

trent_reznor posted:
It's been an interesting experiment over the last couple of years or so. Faced with leaving the infrastructure of traditional record labels and figuring out what the right thing to do is in this new world - I found myself realizing that for me to have any concept of how to interact with the community and know what they might want / what they find appropriate, I need to immerse myself in that world and live it for a while.
The reason no record label knows how to market anything to new media is they don't live there. They don't get it because they don't use it. What you've seen happen with the marketing and presentation of NIN over the last years is a direct result of living next to you, listening to you, consuming with you and interacting with you. Directly. There's no handlers or PR people here, it's me and my guys - that's it. There's no real plan, even - it's just trying to do the right thing that respects you the fan, the music, and me the artist. That's the goal - a mutual and shared respect.
When Twitter made it's way to my radar I looked at it as a curiosity, then started experimenting. I thought it through and in light of where I was / am in my career I decided to lower the curtain a bit and let you see more of my personality. I watched some of you get more engaged because you started to realize there's a person (flaws and all) back there, and I watched some of you recoil in horror because I'm not what you projected on me. All expected. I'm not as concerned about "breaking" your idea of NIN at this point. It is what it is and I am what I am. The relationship between artist and fan is changing if you haven't noticed, along with the way we consume and experience music and even communicate since the internet arrived.
The problem with really getting engaged in a community is getting through the clutter and noise. In a closed environment like nin.com a lot of this can be moderated away, or code can be implemented to make it more difficult for troublemakers to persist. It's tedious and feels like wasted energy doing that shit, but some people exist to ruin it for others - and they are the ones who have nothing better to do with their time. Example: on nin.com, there's 3-4 different people that each send me between 50 - 100 message per day of delusional, often threatening nonsense. We can delete them, but they just sign back up and start again. Yes, we are implementing several changes to address this, but the point is it quickly gets very old weeding through that stuff.
Back to Twitter. I approached that as a place to be less formal and more off-the-cuff, honest and "human". I was not expecting to broadcast details of my love life there, but it happened because I'm in love and it's all I think about and that's that. If this has bummed you out or destroyed what you've projected on me, fair enough - it's probably time for you to leave. You are right, I'm not the same person I was in 1994 (and I'm happy about that). Are you?

Looks like the Metal Sludge contingency has discover Twitter! Finally! For those of you that don't know what this is, please let me explain. Metal Sludge is the home of the absolutely worst people I've ever come across. It's populated mainly by unattractive plump females who publicly fantasize about having sex with guys in bands. Kind of like a role-playing game where people NOBODY will fuck make up stories about their incredible sexual encounters with people they WISH they could fuck. It would be kind of funny in a sad and pathetic way except the fun doesn't stop there - hate and good old-fashioned outright blatant racism are also encouraged to spice things up and remind you how truly ugly these scourges are. TRULY ugly on the inside (the outside is obvious).
Cutter's tip for my friends there: remember to cut along the length of vein, not across. Bigger payoff.
So when you see the new accounts that pop up daily on Twitter spewing exactly the kind of thing I just discussed, usually from picture-less creatively named profiles, spewing hate at Mariqueen and I, take a moment to visualize the sad couple people behind them.
A few years ago some people tuned me in to that world and when I figured out who these people were, I was amazed that I'd been seeing them in the front rows of the shows for months. I really don't understand what kind of "fan" spends that kind of time and money to travel across the country seeing a band, to then dedicate an incredible amount of time and energy into non-stop hate diatribes online. That one puzzles me a little.

Anyway, I'm bored on a long bus drive and there's no real moral to the story here, just writing. I will be tuning out of the social networking sites because at the end of the day it's now doing more harm than good in the bigger picture and the experiment seems to have yielded a result. Idiots rule.

I had thought a while ago about attempting to start a mainstream public forum that required real verification of it's participants for purposes of context. The idea was to have a place where you can actually discuss whatever and have some idea of who you're conversing with. For example, if we were discussing drumming techniques and you can see that someone participating in the discussion is a drum instructor vs. a 13 year old kid Googling answers, you'd have the proper context in which to have a potentially valid discussion. If we were discussing EDLC's heart condition and a real cardiologist speaks up, I'd value his opinion over, say FredFuckFaceWhateverHisLastFuckingNameIs's "opinion". Know what I mean? Anyway, we're in a world where the mainstream social networks want any and all people to boost user numbers for the big selloff and are not concerned with the quality of experience.

With all of that said, I have business in the real world to attend to including wrapping up the live version of NIN, DOING some cool new shit and spending as much time as possible with the most amazing woman in the world.

I am not a fan of Metal Sludge or sluts, but I feel like you have taken a cheap shot at some females and fans. I'm not one of those slutty groupie types, but I think that was kinda messed up for you to call them plump, unattractive and couldn't get laid if they wanted to. that was pretty mean actually. not all of us are sluts trent and some of us may be down on ourselves, but for you to say that we're losers, ugly/unattractive/and can't get (weather a lover or finding a significant other) someone.....that was just down right mean.
I could see why you would slam Metal Sludge (since you're engaged) and females on there claiming them sleeping with you, but how you slam them comes off as you slamming females who aren't up to "certain standards." and that's really messed up.

 

06/10/09 10:18 PM

The problem with the internet is that it's like real life, it's full of people.

Just take a break and come back at some point, there are plenty of nice people around here as well.

Good for you for being happy and in love and what not. You still rock.

Hope you'll come back to NIN at some point in the not so distant future.

Have a good one Trent.

 
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