NiruMad
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Joined: 05/06/08
Posts: 3
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Well, I must say, very well stated, Trent. Although I am by no means defending any idiots out there, I am just trying to rationalize this situation and a few thoughts came to mind while I walked from my building to my parking garage after work.
Your music has been so influential, not just for other musicians, but, for the common listener, such as myself. The lyrics and musical quality surpasses that of many bands and there are many of us who really watched you evolve as an artist over many years. Because you are so forthcoming in your music about your life experiences, people really relate to you. They feel like they know you and want to be next to you, breathe the same air, etc. Hell, I would love to meet you and the other members of NIN, hang out, discuss music, politics, etc. I think people see you and have this preconceived notion of who you are. Now, I know that realistically, we will not BFF's or anything. But, I follow you on Twitter and look forward to your updates, especially regarding tour information. When there were ticket giveaways, I was either fulfilling the responsibilities of my job, going to the gym, or something else that the average person would actually do to be productive. With that said, there are certain people who seem to really scrutinize your life under a very powerful microscope, to an obsessive level. When something happens that challenges this preconceived idea people have of who you are and your humanness becomes more apparent, and you experience the wonderful life events that you should, it is very shocking. Then, the psychotic obsession takes over their lives, and they stalk and harass you. Many times, because they feel let down by this transition in their perception of you, they try to hurt you, and have obviously been successful. They also want to hurt those who are close, because they have no self esteem or purpose to their existences. It's a shame that a few bad apples have ruined this whole experience for those of us who really appreciate how accessible you are to your fans and how you have really connected with us. I, personally, thoroughly enjoyed the live shows from the Lights in the Sky & NINJA tours, driving to a different city for the latter. Also, being a woman of a different ethnic persuasion, I have absolutely no tolerance for discrimination & racism of any kind. It is really easy to abuse the Internet for such purposes, because of the anonymity and lack of accountability for one's actions. If someone actually insulted my ethnicity & gender to my face, frankly, I'd just kick the person's ass. But, to read it is really disturbing, and you don't forget those things. So, my heart goes out to you and your fiance for this recent difficulty. But, you do what you need to do, and I cannot wait for your next projects. Good luck!
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