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06/10/09 11:41 AM

"I'm in love and it's all I think about and that's that"[u][/u] - Seriously? People have a problem with that? I say good for you for feeling that way and better for you for sharing it. I feel the same way and it's great!

 

06/10/09 12:41 PM

Thanks for being a stand-up guy and not letting these retards (and, let's get it out of the way, crazy fat bitches) completely fuck it up and ruin it for everyone, even though they try their damnedest.

 

06/10/09 11:42 AM

TR I can fully understand why these kinds of people want to make you throw up yours hands and quit. However, for every one of them, I guarantee there are 10,000 or more who actively or passively support what you're doing and truly appreciate your time & effort to communicate with us.

People often say "with so much evil in the world how can there possibly be a God?" Yet I look around and see so much good that goes unnoticed yet keeps giving. It's not that this good is worthless, just that the evil seems to occupy so much more of the available bandwidth.

 

06/10/09 11:42 AM

Thanks Trent...

I have to say, as a fan since the Pretty Hate days, your engagement both on this site (this is my first post, I'm ashamed to say) and on Twitter (I've replied a few times -- most recently with photos of the Jones Beach show that I'm quite proud of) has really made you, and NIN, more real to me than ever before.

And I think that's a problem for a lot of "fans." Nine Inch Nails and the "Trent Reznor Persona" are a very real and tangible thing that some people have taken as a mantle with which to identify themselves. It's another form of geekery. Think Star Wars Fans, or Trekkies, or CosPlayers. They've found something, have latched onto it with such ferocity that they've incorporated it into "who they are."

I'll admit that, as an angsty teen in high school, your music and lyrics synced up really with with my life. As you are no doubt well aware, there are plenty of goths (for lack of a better term) who embrace that angst. They REVEL in it. They never realized that, while your lyrics and music were very angry, very hurt, very damaged -- that you didn't WANT to be angry, hurt or damaged! You were EXPRESSING it -- and maybe even moreso, you were using it as a way to heal from it.

Some of us grew up. I don't dress like a "NIN Fan" anymore -- whatever that means. I'm a working professional, still quite creative, and while I don't feel the same way I felt as a kid, I can still identify, appreciate and love your music. I ROCKED THE FUCK OUT Saturday and Sunday. I'm still feeling it.

Some of us didn't grow up. They've projected a persona upon you and they're unwilling to let it go. Maybe it's that they never got rid of those posters they put up in high school. Hell, some are angry that you've been working out and are jacked up. Some now LOVE it.

They've taken you and made you theirs... and that's not fair when you think about it... but it's all they know. Change is hard, especially for damaged people. They felt like they had a leader, someone who understood them, and now they feel abandoned.

This isn't your fault (which you know) and they need to realize that, too.

I'm glad you're happy. I'd love to hear what happy Trent Reznor music sounds like. I wouldn't even care if it sounded like NIN. Your talents certainly extend far beyond the limitations of what NIN might be "allowed" to sound like.

Some will recoil. Let them.

Others will embrace.

Maybe you'll make some new fans along the way.

---

As for the haters, like FredDoucheCanoe, well... I'm sure you'd had enough and had to say something but I was surprised you gave the kid any credit by acknowledging him at all. You gave him the satisfaction of your response, and further fueled his fire.

My opinion is this... I know it's not a publicity stunt. It's not your style. But shit, even if it were, and you still saved a kid's life... well fuck it. You've got publicity, a kid's got his life. WIN-WIN.

Life is what's most important. You've saved someone's life. You really have. You've used your celebrity in the best possible way and I applaud you for it. It makes me proud to be a fan.

Enjoy life, Trent.

@LittleBill (on Twitter) - photos of the Jones Beach show here: [www.flickr.com]



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06/10/09 12:42 PM

ihatecrayons posted:
leo3375 posted:
The glimpses at Trent Reznor the normal human being have been great. Loved the humor, the sarcasm, and the general persona it projected. If you truly are leaving Twitter, I for one will miss some of the funniest things that ever graced the Twittersphere. Thank you for sharing a little piece of yourself.

This, completely. Loved reading your updates, but I don't blame you at all if you are leaving Twitter. I probably would too if I was you.

The fact that you even immersed yourself in the community at all is something amazing in itself, and I thank you for letting us all "peek behind the curtain" at the real you. It was a real treat, and it will be missed, spoiled because of all the stupid assholes out there.

Thanks again. smiling smiley

Won't say what's already been said before, so I'm quoting this for the truth.

 

06/10/09 11:43 AM

It's been great following you on Twitter, Trent, mostly because it's just nice to see a guy who has been such a huge influence on me, creatively and personally, be happy. I'm glad to see you all lovey dovey (I followed Mariqueen, just to see her be all lovey dovey to you too). As far as I'm concerned, you deserve it.

But, if leaving sites like Twitter will keep your mood up, then I'll be just as glad to see updates from you stop. It's your personal life. You already know that you have no obligation to keep us in the loop on stuff like that--but thank you for doing so anyway. It's not just grand gestures like giving us an entire album for free that we appreciate (thanks for that, by the way!); it's simple things like this.

Looking forward to seeing you in Singapore in August, Trent. You've probably had shitloads of fans tell you this already, but what the hell: I'm happy for you and Mariqueen.

 

06/10/09 11:43 AM

Fuck, this makes me so angry! Since getting more involved with music journalism, I too have simultaneously found my way into the underbelly of the "fandom" - with horrific results. I have never had less faith in the human race. I find myself wondering if everyone is being raised by wolves. There is no such thing as senses of boundary, courtesy, respect or for God's sakes,even compassion any longer. These folks are consumed with self-importance and indulgence.

The saddest part of all this is that good dudes like you, Trent, DO attempt to make contact with their audiences - out of both curiosity as well as a genuine sense of appreciation for their support. You wind up walking away from that experience absolutely horrified and disillusioned. I've seen in before, and it isn't going to let up any time soon. Whether or not these scourges of the earth know (or care) that they are ruining the experience for the rest of us AS WELL AS themselves, no one knows. No one knows what, if anything, these people know - they're teetering very precariously on the edge of sanity already.

I expect that twitter will eventually become a ghost town, devoid of anyone with anything decent to offer, just as after-show meetings become scarcer as well for similar reasons. Good work, people! Sigh...you will be missed, Trent. Wishing you a safe tour, and love to all.

-Deb

 

06/10/09 11:44 AM

from my experience, the best thing to do is to be involved with any social networking sites in moderation. getting too deep into it is really pointless, frustrating, infuriating, and ultimately not very rewarding.

i hope trent continues to twitter and post in this forum. i've really enjoyed his comments and insights on what he's been up to. beyond that, i can totally understand his disappointment. but, i think that's because he just got too deeply involved in the whole thing. but, of course, that's just MY opinion :-)

don't let the assholes get you down, trent. just ignore them. no matter what you do, there will ALWAYS be someone trying to bring you down because of their insecurities and jealousies.

 

06/10/09 11:44 AM

rotting_orange posted:
Yeah, along with what everyone else said, there is a lot of fail to wade through on teh internets. I am sure some others of us have been through experiences where we revealed a part of ourselves and people have taken advantage (albeit on a smaller scale). I am sure for every psycho out there there are 10 of us 'just keep doing what you're doing' cheerleaders as well.

On a personal level, I can say that what I really enjoy about your posts is a variety of things.
1. More open connection with the fans (hence the stalker fail that you described above). It makes everything feel more personal.
2. The day-to-day workings of the business that you talk about. I am sure that a lot of us on here are artists and performers ourselves, and I know that I am always looking at the people who are at the top of their game in order to understand exactly the level of effort that it requires to be a successful artistic person. In some way I really feel that all your online stuff is similar to any mentoring situation. I know that for me, your statements on the business and the manner in which you as artists need to adapt to technology have been invaluable.

Just my $0.02 on why you rock =)

And to add, I think it's great that you have found happiness. A lot of us knew on some level about your struggles a few years back and I think that a lot of us are just genuinely happy for you and Mariqueen =)

I think any mature adult wants to see the artists that they enjoy grow in new ways and move forward, just as your music has developed along with that. It's just the nature of life.

 

06/10/09 11:44 AM

Enlightening. Don't let the assholes bum you down.

 

06/10/09 11:44 AM

Very heartfelt and honest. Please don't let the few delusional, idiotic dimwits get you down. You have thousands of [reasonably mentally healthy] fans who love and appreciate what you do.

 

06/10/09 11:44 AM

Trent,

I'm 33 and you were one of the musicians that helped me to form my personality as a teenager. Since you have become more visible on Twitter I have been surprised by some of the things you've said regarding love, and other cuddly subjects.

I'm not sure why that should surprise me. I am an intelligent person and know there is a real person behind the music. Nevertheless, getting to know a more human side of you has been unexpected and great.

I'm glad you are growing as a person and an artist. I really hope being in love shows up in your newest music because hearing that side of you expressed artistically would be super.

Fuck the haters, brother. Keep growing and being great.

 

06/10/09 11:45 AM

Hey Trent. well, it's obvious that this was gonna happen, and it could have happenned to anybody. As we all know, there's one thing called admiration and personal growth can come from that. So I've been listening to you since I was 12 maybe, and thata was like in 1998, 11 years later, I've grown, I'm not a kid anymore and your music and some other's music (some your firneds, some used to be) helped me opne my mind and think outside the boundaries, so thatas cool, I admire you and some others and by listening but not blindly, I got to some important personal growth adn i still admire you and all the rest. o fcourse, there's another thing called fanatism, that's waht happens when ppl just don't wanna see their lives or lokk at theirselves and their close enviroments, but they enter into a carzy fucked uop ilusion, making the basis of their lives, well, I don't know, serving a cause, like the terrorists, or satlking some artist, somewhat like you. Well, your music is appealing to fucked upo ppl, we all are, but some o f us grow and some of us stay 13 and stupid, and that's what happens with these ugly bitches back there, and some other fucking crazy people. besides all that, we all know from social psychology, that being anounymous takes down restrictions in your mind and so you can do crazy shit you would'nt dare to do if ppl knew who you are, and that's waht internet does, so you can imagine now how fucked up stupid ppl are gonna act on the internet, where they can bve free to be the stupid-mentally-ill ass-raped by their dads-whores they are.

So, yeah, you've changed, it would be really fucked up and I would be very disapointed if u were the same persona than in 1989 or 1994, you can't be the same u were at your 20's when you are in your 40's right? Im glad your happy and you found love, and if u wer'ent in a good place right now, you'll just be some fucked up old guy, not the man we all respect. keep being happy and come to perú cuz I ain't got no money to travel again confused smiley

Best of luck!

 

06/10/09 11:45 AM

The best thing to do with morons who are harassing you is to just leave 'em alone. Who cares if they don't like you? It's not like they're people that you respect, or anyone who means anything. Like the old phrase goes - it's like yelling at a donkey. The only thing it'll accomplish is it'll annoy the donkey, and frustrate the hell out of you. smiling smiley I will miss you on Twitter, as you are one of the reasons I joined. smiling smiley

I was lucky enough to be in the front row last night (never done that before!), and it was one of the best shows I've ever seen. Had I known there were jerks who didn't appreciate it, I would have happily punched them in the throat for you.

Personally I really like your idea of a verified forum where you can see who everyone is. I'd totally be up for that. smiling smiley

 

06/10/09 11:46 AM

Careful Trent - the Chubby Chaser crowd is going to start flaming you...

It's been a great experience being allowed into your personal life for once, and even having the privilege of meeting you in person. Thank you for taking the time and for being a genuinely nice person. You make it easy to be a fan of your music, always making us feel like the "cool kids" since you're always ahead of the curve compared to the rest of the music industry...I hope that continues, we'll be waiting.

 

06/10/09 11:46 AM

Just ignore all the trolls online.

I'm very happy that you have changed since 1994. You are a lot happier now, your music is better than it ever was, and you are much more connected with the outside world.
I wasn't surprised by your Twitter posts at all, I knew you were a human being and I knew you had changed.

You have a woman that loves you for who you are, and you love her, I think that's really special.

I wish you two the best of luck.



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06/10/09 12:47 PM

Trent, thanks for helping a great cause and also making time for your fans in Camden (especially when you had no time because of the rain). Once again you came through for your fans. Please don't waste your time with idiots online or realtime. Its been a privelage to enjoy you and your music for 20 years, now you go and enjoy the next 50 or so however you choose. I just hope to hear some music from you. Hope Josie is doing OK. Greyhounds rule !!!!!

 

06/10/09 11:47 AM

Then again you can "enlist" your fans to bring down the offending server!

from forums.metalsludge.tv -


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Can't connect to MySQL server on 'mysql.openroadsolutions.com' (111) [2003]

An sql error occurred while fetching this page. Please contact an administrator if this problem persists.

 

06/10/09 12:47 PM

I also think we just broke Metal Sludge because it says its down, and I just have to see this for myself.

 

06/10/09 11:47 AM

I am not a fan! Let me explain: I'm not a fan of anyone, except to myself and those in my heart. I'm very happy that you are in love, as I am too and it's a great feeling and well worth the trial and tribulations.
With this power comes great responsibility if to anyone else, then yourself. It's a sad thing the desperation of people and hard to understand at times. Good Luck with all that, as you are in the guilded cage.
Good luck and good on ya, for bringing to the people, for the people! Hell, run for president why don't ya!
Keep the faith and keep to those great words you put to music! smiling smiley

 

06/10/09 11:48 AM

Thanks for this post Trent. I have had a ton of respect for you, and now respect you even more. Your music has had a tremendous impact on my life when little else has been able to bring voice / sound to what has really been going on in my life. Thanks for being human. Although, I always knew you were. Anyone who actually listens to your music knows.

 

06/10/09 11:48 AM

Anyone else notice that Metal Sludge is offline at the moment? Hahah! Did Trent kill their bandwidth?

 

06/10/09 11:49 AM

Let´s be honest: there are people out there that just want you to start doing drugs again because they think that way everything will be another "the fragile" era (the fact that someone thinks you need to be on drugs to do better music it´s just the most idiotic thing ever)...I hate when people just can´t accept the fact that things changes...

Anyway,i hope you don´t dissappear from twitter... i really enjoyed reading what you had to say.

 

06/10/09 11:49 AM

It's been nice seeing you break down your walls and give us a glimpse of who you are behind the personae(do some people really think there isn't a real person back there??).
It's sad that so many idiots can't live with that and need to make everything a nightmare for you, and for all of us who actually really give a shit from a more human perspective.

Be well, Sir. It's been a great ride. smiling smiley

 

06/10/09 11:49 AM

realmente aprecio tu trabajo y el esfuerzo que estás haciendo por acercar tu música al público. eso se agradece mucho.
tuve la oportunidad de asistir a la presentación de nin en santiago, chile, del año pasado y no hay forma de explicarte lo que eso significó para mi.
agradezco además que compartas tus reflexiones en twitter y en internet en general. si te has percatado de que la gente se ha defraudado porque pensaba que detrás de nin no habían personas, entonces los equivocados son ellos ya que se rigen por imágenes que les entregan los medios de comunicación sin darles la oportunidad a cambiar ni menos a evolucionar. una pena por ellos.
sólo quisiera preguntarte qué opinas: ¿son las personas las que cambian o son las circunstancias que las rodean las que cambian? de hace un tiempo le he dado vueltas a esa duda y creo que las personas no cambian, ya que en escencia se mantienen permanentes en el tiempo, pero por eso pregunto tu opinión.
desde chile, me despido, agradeciéndote nuevamente el hecho de compartir tu trabajo con nosotros y esperando una nueva visita que los traiga de vuelta a santiago.

 

06/10/09 11:49 AM

Loved you then (90's), Love you now! If anyone is still the same person after 15 years that would just be sad. Plus on a completely shallow level (but I also think it represents how much you have evolved), I think you are way hotter now - with the grown up hot man look instead of the troubled youth artist look of years past. Not that it wasn't "cute", but I just think you grew up nicely, that's all. Anyway, now that we have thouroughly examined the dregs (metal sludge) that have stirred up so much trouble for you, can we go back to simply ignoring them? Guess that's hard for you when they are in the front row, spooky... Sorry, that your true (non-crazy) supporters are too busy with their sane lives to drop in and give you as many props as the crazy people give you trouble, but we are here, even if not as often. It's just that the crazies really don't have anything else to do. It always make me wonder, how do they pay their bills, doesn't seem like they would have enough time to have a job. Ah well, Whatever! The important thing is that the music has ALWAYS soothed me (yes, soothed) and also rocked me - so, please, keep up the good work smiling smiley I finally saw you guys in concert in Chula Vista this year and it was absolutely fantasticness. Thanks for ongoing Top Quality Artistry & Congrats on the new chapter with your new love, Mariqueen!!! Stay awesome and stay focused on stuff that inspires you and not stuff (people) that are going to try to strip parts of you away. I don't mind losing you to your love, but I would mind losing you to metal sludge. Hugs

 

06/10/09 11:50 AM

Trent...... You deserve to be happy and in LOVE......

Go and enjoy your life with Mariqueen.
Let the bastards who don't get it wallow in their pathetic shitty lives.

Thank you for sharing who you are and being always true to yourself.

Wishing you all blessings.

Eli

 

06/10/09 11:50 AM

i KNEW they'd eventually ruin your internet presence for everybody.
fuckwads.

bottom line is we want you around interacting with us and you do have a forum - this one. please stay around.

 

06/10/09 11:50 AM

This is why I have decided to be an anti social accountant. Numbers tend to not lie and abuse you unless you worked for Enron. I have been lucky enough to catch you on your last two tours and can't wait to see what you put together in the future.

 

06/10/09 11:50 AM

Not all of us plump, unattractive females on the front row are like that though, Trent. No, honestly, I swear we aren't.

Anyway, I agree with what you've said. I think the anonymity of the internet allows people to be more vicious than they'd have the bollocks to be in real life, and it really brings out the worst in a lot of people. (Though it also brings out the best too, as evident by the turn out for the charities and whatnot.) I think it's been interesting seeing the more human side of you, and honestly if I ever got weirded out by it then I could just, oh I don't know... Not follow you on Twitter or something. There's that weird little button that says "unfollow" that's just as easy to click as "follow". But I guess a lot of people don't notice that sort of thing. Shocker.

 
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