Moral posted:because howtodestroyangels.com doesn't have a discussion forum yet, and nin discussion might as well be "trent" discussion... as that is how its been treated for years.
jayetheartist posted: If it needs to be moved, the mods will move it. Let them worry about it.
I don't really agree with either of you, but ok. I understand there are mods that take care of matters like this, but still... I hear a bunch of fans telling everyone not to look at htda as we looked at nin, and yet here it is in the same section. If it is a different matter I do think it shouldn't be in here.
But sure, do what ever you want. I just really think that's kinda contradicting yourselves.
Now on topic, I hear a lot of people saying that we should "detach" the music from the artist, and I'd like to say that to some degree, I understand why, and agree, but I don't think that in this case it will be an easy thing to do. And I'm saying this because we are dealing with a bunch of NIN fans, that have followed Trent for years and want the best for him, and now there's a lady in the picture - and I do believe this relationship is the most "public" one -, and people get intrigued. I think it is obvious that people start digging into her live and start to relate the person to the music. At least that happened to me to some degree. I gave up on doing so because I saw how it affected how I "looked" at the music, and also because it was kinda stalk-ish of me.
SO, my point is, to be detached, we probably would have to never look up Mariqueens life, and I believe that I wasn't the only one making that mistake in the past, and now we can't really "unsee" or "unlearn" what we did about her. So yes, detaching is near impossible, though I understand it's importance.