heatherette333 posted:

you guys are making me a little nervous for my date on Friday..hahah

Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 07/14/2010 09:37AM by Suge.

haha yeah unfortunately i wish i was making that up but it definitely happened.

who says that??!?!?

deal breaker- bad kissers. i don't really have a rule about kissing on the first date. if it seems right, go for it. regardless of when you first kiss someone, if they turn out to be a bad kisser...they're most likely bad at everything else. buh-bye. no offense but i don't feel like teaching someone how to be a good kisser etc. "practice" elsewhere, thank you.



ps. Suge, that man is going to give me nightmares!!!



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 07/14/2010 12:11PM by heatherette333.

WendInTheWillows posted:

-Talking/bitching about an ex is a big turn-off. Unless I have gotten to know this person quite well, doing this on a first (or even second date) is just not on.

- Complaining about anything: money/love/sexual or health problems.......God, I have had that happen over a beautiful dinner & I could not wait to get the Hell outta there! Talk about a mood-killer.

Once again "YES!" to the talking about exes: My recent ex was like that, it didn't bother me at first, cause she didn't talk about them in a high standard, more like telling me about bad dates or being treated poorly by an ex. One discussion is fine, but when it becomes a major topic for them, it makes them look like their whole lives have been nothing but dating and that's it, but it's also the baggage factor as well...shit, we've all had horrible relationships and dates, doesn't mean we're going to talk about them and wear them on our sleeve, especially on a date with somebody new, what is wrong with people?

And the Money/Love/Health problems, I've come across them, the health ones are really difficult, there's nothing wrong with having troubles and bouts with health, but when it becomes like a major sympathetic topic of discussion early on, it definitely kills the mood. I once picked up a date and she showed me around her apt and then when it came to her bathroom she pointed to her cabinet and said, "yeah, I take WAY TOO many pills...it's like a Pharmacy in there" *Sighs* now that's a way to my heart

I just wonder if people actually understand what "1st Impressions" really means....

Since Heather reminded me, I'll add Bad Kissers, that's most definitely in the TOP 10 Deal Breakers!



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 07/14/2010 12:22PM by gonzo84.

I agree with talking about money. I hate talking about money. The majority of people I know have financial problems including myself; I doubt you're a financial consultant so there's no need to know about it.
I've never dated someone with health problems so it's never been an issue for me. The last guy I went on a date with (the DMB freak who couldnt take a hint) actually came out one night that my friend and I were at the bar i think b/c he knew we would be there. Then he started saying how he had a cold or whatever, it's like , dude, if you're gonna complain about it then stay home! I don't want to be around your germs anyways.

LobotomyBaby posted:

i don't like to feel my tongue is involved in a sumo-wrestling match inside her mouth.

hahaha

the worst is when someone licks your entire face. sickening. also people who just sit there with their mouth open and do nothing.

heatherette333 posted:

the worst is when someone licks your entire face. sickening. also people who just sit there with their mouth open and do nothing.

...It was one time and I'm new at this