pragmatica

pacifism kicks ass
Joined: 11/24/07
Location: Canada
Posts: 2,746
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Where to begin? I won't hit every single point with this list, but I've noticed these often attract my attention:
PHYSICALLY: long defined noses, dark hair, olive shaped eyes, a symmetrical face, body weight that's in the healthy BMI range for their height, decent muscle tone (but *not* bulging bodybuilder muscles), a flat belly, mixed ancestry for some hybrid vigour, height up to two inches taller or four inches shorter (I'm 6'), skin complexion in the lightish to medium range, body proportions that are pleasing to the eye, skin that isn't sun damaged, shorter hair, someone who enjoys physical affection like touching massaging and hand-holding, and a man who lives a healthy and relatively active lifestyle overall. Not a smoker, not a heavy drinker (or even moderate), no heavy drug use.
PSYCHOLOGICALLY: A huge and powerful cerebral cortex (i.e. high intelligence), above average writing ability along with an enjoyment of writing and correspondence, good spelling and grammar, independence and self-sufficiency, overall confidence, not emotionally needy, very direct communication style, introverted, enjoys quietude and solitude, capable of trust and not afraid to open up about the intimate details of all their thoughts, rational and logical, takes a long term view instead of living day by day, has a direction in life, enjoys flirting and joking around, decent sex drive, non-materialist with simple daily needs, and most likely has an INTJ or INTP personality type.
I also prefer to have several things in common with a man as far as hobbies and interests go (sci-fi and indie movies, travel, geeky/nerdy stuff, etc) but certainly don't need to have everything in common.
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