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10/16/08 9:24 PM

Ok all back on topic...

Ruth: no worries at all regarding the adverts. I have a story about that particular site, fortunately it's pretty funny, not tragic.

A family friend of ours took out an ad on the swinger site as a goof to see what type of people would reply. She was not dating at the time and she was working as a temp in a city she did not intend in staying permantly. It turns out that a guy that she used to work with replied to her advert. Her co-worker was looking for a lady friend to join him and his longtime g/f who was bi-curious. My friend agreed to meet the co-worker for lunch figuring he had much to loose as she did should he act out or threaten to expose her. As my friend put it, having lunch turned out to be like going to a grossed out job interview fielding such questions as "Do you shave, or trim your pussy?" "How do you feel about rough sex?" "When was the last time you did it?" "Would you object to being tied up?" "Do you have good gag reflex?" "Do you douche often?" Pretty awkward when you come to think of it answering questions like this over lunch with someone you barely know. This guy was firing questions off as if my friend was being interviewed for some position he had (no pun intended).

Needless to say nothing came out of their luncheon date and my friend decided that having her advert on that site could have led to maybe meeting someone even more strange or dangerous so she took down her advert. As far as the co-worker was concerned, he never followed up in arranging a second date with my friend in meeting his g/f.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/19/2008 09:45PM by anais_morr.

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10/19/08 7:13 AM

^ ^ LOL anais_morr. Guess it just goes to show that we don't know who puts in the ads or those that read them... so there's always a small risk of coming across someone you know.

Misskabuki posted:
umm i am sort of afraid to post herewinking smiley but i have a little experience with threesomes and swapping and i have found that usually you can meet halfway and everyone have a really cool experience. Monogamous group sex is pretty freaking hot! Your still only with your partner but its like being in a porno, its very exciting. Have you thought about swapping? Some people are not into it but there are lots of swingers clubs where you can pick up single men/women. also i have had good experiences with the site localswingers.ca and you can always see them in pics/video chat,meet in public to decide. From my own experience from m f f threesomes. one girl usually feels left out, but everyone has different feelings about them. One last recommendation, discuss what cheating REALLY is to you, I don't have a problem with my man sleeping with someone else, as long as:
-he wears a condom
-i am there in the room
-everyone is happy
-there is no emotional attachments on anyone part.
There is so much awesome information out there on all this stuff you should check out the sex is fun podcast its so good.

Swinging is something that has crossed my mind too. But it's not something I'd venture into alone... I'd either need a partner or a similar minded friend for 'support'. With regard to yr 'conditions', I'd pretty much agree on them.

deboralct posted:
I've never done it, and it's not something I'd really like to do. I think that threesomes are more interesting when the three are totally involved, and not only "sharing" a girl or guy. I wouldn't do it with another girl because I'm not bisexual, so we'd only be taking turns. And doing it with two straight guys wouldn't be so interesting either. So, if I decided to do it, I guess it would have to be with two bisexual guys, because the three of us would be equally involved. Plus, being fucked by a guy while he's being fucked by another seems to be totally hot. spinning smiley sticking its tongue out

Ok, now I'm thinking that I really wanna do it, lol.


I'd describe myself as mainly straight. So whilst I'm not bisexual per se, I don't have any issues with a MFF threesome. Similarly my ex was the same so a MFM was also on the cards; so no-one would be left out as it were. Gotta be said tho - the thought of MFM really turns me on.....

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10/19/08 9:25 PM

PrettyMaiden posted:
The truth is that we move into great sin through baby steps of compromise. Consider this

sexual immorality begins in simple office flirtations.
Impurity and debauchery starts with pornography.
Ambition begins with buttering up the boss.
drunkenness begins with one simple drink./i]

[i]The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace,patience,
kindness,goodness,peace, patience,
faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.
I prefer the fruits of the Spirit in my marriage.
YOU consider this:
He sewed his eyes shut because he is afraid to see
He tries to tell me what I put inside of me
He's got the answers to ease my curiosity
He dreamed a god up and called it Christianity
Your god is dead and no one cares
If there is a hell I'll see you there
He flexed his muscles to keep his flock of sheep in line
He made a virus that would kill off all the swine
His perfect kingdom of killing, suffering and pain
Demands devotion atrocities done in his name
Your god is dead and no one cares
Drowning in his own hypocrisy
And if there is a hell I'll see you there
Burning with your god in humility
Will you die for this?

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10/20/08 9:18 AM

^^consider this,as well:
hey God
there's nothing left for me to hide.
i lost my ignorance, security and pride.
i'm all alone in a world you must despise.

i believed your promises, your promises and lies

you made me throw it all away.
my morals left to decay.
how many you betray.
you've taken everything

On topic, I have fantasized about threesomes, but I know my husband would never go for it. I think it would probably work best between three people that are not in relationships. I am sure it does work for some, but I think it could lead to a lot of jealousy an other issues in a relationship.

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10/20/08 10:37 AM

I think a threesome in an open relationship is fine, or if your single, but it's not really meI need honest feelings and a commitment from someone.......I have ventured into a threesome when i was single, but it wasgoofy sex, and funny...and another experience.But if I am with a boyfriend or married per se, I cannot hurt my partner in this way. I wear my chastity belt, so to speak and only my husband has the key to the lock, now....and it will forevor be......I have never slept around or betrayed anyone by shagging in an affairand i have never been a mistress, as it is against my principles........True loveis fidelity.......in heart, mind and soul.

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10/20/08 11:36 AM

Have had a few. One of which was in another country (Italy). It pays to be in the military sometimes.smiling bouncing smiley

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10/20/08 12:57 PM

consider this: It's in the lyrics to the song 'I Surrendersung by Samantha Fox.

[i]I got a secret, I can't keep
That burns inside when I'm in my sleep
I try to hide from your memory
but you come back and its haunting me
What will I find in this fantasy?
If I go with you now will you set me free?

And I surrender to the spirit of the night
I surrender
The darkness is my lover
and that's a pleasure
So I surrender to the spirit of the night

I take cover from the light of day
But you keep calling and I obey
And I don't remember, where I have been
But you come back to me in my dreams

What, will I find in this fantasy?
If I go with you now, will you set me free

And I surrender to the spirit of the night
I surrender
The darkness is my lover
And that's a pleasure

I go crazy when the sun goes down
And it takes control as I hit the town
I give my body to the heat of the night
And there's no mad judge, if it's wrong or right

And I surrender to the spirit of the night
I surrender
The darkness is is my lover
And that's a pleasure
Big city lights calling out my name

spirit of the nightttttt.

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10/20/08 2:01 PM

cmon.
someone plz?thumbs down

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10/20/08 1:46 PM

3-sum's are great, no question about it. MFF only though.smileys with beer

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10/21/08 10:01 AM

I changed my MYSPACE status to SWINGER once to see what would happen. No one contacted me for any adventures (well, one friend started hinting around) but I started a very interesting rumor mill at work.

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