I am a lady and when I was dating a girl we decided to have sex with this female friend of ours. The experience was fine, no backlash really. although-and this is gonna make me sound bad but oh well- the next morning we woke up and she was still sleeping in between us and we gave each other the 'we gotta get this ho outta here' look. I was like I am going to class make sure she is gone when I get back! I would never do anything that cold now. So I will re-phrase this, there was no backlash for my girlfriend and I but the other girl I don't really know. On second thought I think she was fine. Oh freshman year of college how crazy you were.